What happens, in order
What happens to something unsaid after you leave it here.
The form asks four things of you. Everything after that happens without you.
A first name, a first name and last initial, or what you call them: Mom, Grandma Becky. Never a full name or a handle. Enough for someone to recognize themselves. Not enough for anyone else to.
The part you never said, in your own words. Nothing is tidied or shortened — it goes up as you wrote it, or not at all.
Put your name to it or leave it off. It is posted the same either way; the only difference is whether a name sits under it.
You wish they knew.
It was never meant for them. You just needed somewhere to put it.
Every message is reviewed by a person before it appears. Some don't make it through. The terms set out what isn't accepted.
Every message that's accepted is posted here with the date, the first name it was for, and your name if you left one.
Each week a handful are recorded as short videos and posted to our social accounts. An AI voice reads them, or the sender's own recording if they left one. The words are always the sender's own either way.
We don't send messages on, look people up, or help anyone find anyone. If a message ever reaches the person it was for, it isn't through us.
Entries are numbered in the order they arrived and never renumbered. Nothing is deleted once it is catalogued.